Black Lives Matter says”Fathers don’t Matter”

June 7th- 2020

Father teaching his son to be a strong man

Just when you thought Black Lives Matter couldn’t get any more left winged by calling for defunding and disbanding all police departments across America, they are now advocating for fatherless homes, or atleast stating that fathers are “optional.”

According to their official website at https://blacklivesmatter.com/what-we-believe/

They claim to want to destroy male centered “patriarchy” (The belief that men hold all of the advantages in society), and to remove the western held belief of a “Nuclear family” (i.e. a home containing both a mother and father). They are also against “heteronormative thinking”, according to their statement. .

In their mission statement, they make several promises to support trans women, women of color, black people in general, LBGTQ, mothers….and “parents”. A deliberate avoidance of the word “fathers” and men.

From Blacklivesmatter.com-

As we can see, they have spelled out their agenda clearly. They feel shame and disgust towards anything that is heterosexual, white, male, or traditional in values such as nuclear families and marriage.

Is this the message we should be preaching to the Black community where fatherless homes make up over 70% of all households? The white community isnt fairing much better clocking in at over Half! According to “United Families International”, an organization that studies the relationship between children and parents, discovered that “boys who grow up without fathers are almost 4 times more likely to serve time in prison than those who grow up with a father.

Speaking of prison, men make up over 75% of the federal prison population whereas almost all inmates report not having a stable father figure. Studies also suggest that women receive lighter sentences for the same crime committed by men, do the “Damsel in Distress” Stereotype.

BLM frequently preaches against male privilege yet ignores that less than 12% of men win custody of their kids in divorces and more than half lose contact with this kids within two years after divorce.

Men who experience divorce are twice as likely than women to be forced into bankruptcy and 6 times more likely to be at risk for suicide. Currently over 70% of all homeless people in the US are men. Over 90% of all illegal child soldiers in the world are boys.

Boys are also at an all time low for college enrollment. Girls are outpacing boys in college enrollment at nearly 2 to 1 ratios. Societies war against masculinity has caused a generation of weak, subservient men who are still being drafted into wars in order to fight on everyone else’s behalf.

This generation is obsessed with “progress”, yet no shame or respect for anything that is traditional or Godly in any sense of the world. The days of a strong man/warrior/protector with a nurturing, loving mother are soon to be long gone.

In closing, perhaps we should all check out privilege, especially if you live in the USA, whereas half of the world is living on less than $1 a day in addition to continued slavery practices in central & East Africa, Eatern Europe, and South east Asia.

Even the lowest class citizen of USA has a higher standard of life than someone in Somalia, Uganda, Ukraine Cambodia, or Yugoslavia.

The worst part is, BLM claims to speak for black America but ignores its conservative black constituents. I’ll say this….you can protest against police brutality, seek Justice for George Floyd, call for the arrest of Derek Chauvin, and denounce racism…. you can even say ” Black Lives Matter”, but under all means, if you have any respect for conservative traditional ways of living, and you respect the men in your life, I would not recommend financially supporting this specific organization.

-Nalini-Global 2020

Nalini-Global calls for Essure Ban to Protect Women

 

Many of my past pursuits have been dedicated towards bringing gender equality towards men in the family law courts. However, being consistent in my belief that both genders face unique forms of discrimination, I feel that the “Essure” birth control product is sacrificing the health of our female population for the sake of profiteering on behalf of companies like Bayer and the doctors who accept their payments to push their dangerous products.

A CNN analysis shows that from August 2013 through December 2017, Bayer Pharmaceuticals paid 11,850 doctors $2.5 million related to Essure. Bayer recently announced it would pull the device off the market.

While all forms of birth control, aside from abstinence, involve a certain level of risk regarding side-effects, permanent forms of birth control like “Essure” pose the most risk. It is a procedure that involves implanting sharp metal coils into the Fallopian tubes  from a woman’s cervix which causes scar tissue, ultimately leading towards a blockage that will block sperm entry.  The procedure sounds good in theory, but the risk for infections and the sharp coils damaging surrounding tissues are severe.

I have personally spoken to and surveyed hundreds of women over the last few weeks  , some who were just in their early 20s, who have had to undergo hysterectomies, and in many cases claim they were not told that the procedure was permanent nor potentially dangerous.  Hormonal birth control pills increase a woman’s chance of developing blood clots or suffering a heart attack, however, such risks can be greatly minimized by avoiding smoking and heavy drinking. When it comes to implantable devices like Essure, lifestyle choices have little effect on whether or not the patient will develop problems later on down the line. Hair-loss, heavy bleeding, and death are possible side-effects of this device.

This situation is far too familiar in our health-care system. Huge pharmaceutical companies suppressing natural medicines like cannabis or other forms of complimentary medicine, so that they can issue out their lobbying money towards hospitals in order to turn a profit.  We are talking about a woman’s reproductive organ here!  Stories like these go to show us that the action of sex should only be carried out if the subject is participating with a potential long-term mate.  Regardless of the methods used, there is also a 1% chance rate of failure.

We forget that the biological function of sexual activity is for reproduction, not for mere entertainment. If you are a patient looking into reducing unwanted pregnancies yet still want intimacy, there are many other safer alternatives than to elect to permanently disfigure your body. The same goes for men. Cutting and litigating tubes and veins in your body just so you can have sex without the possibility of pregnancy seems far too dangerous in my mind.  This is further evidence of why we need better sex education in our schools. We need broader discussions on the emotional, spiritual, and financial ramifications of sexual activity.

Regardless of how one might feel about birth control methods, we should all agree that this dangerous device be taken off the market. Sacrificing the health of our mothers, daughters, and sisters just so a major pharmaceutical company can make millions, just isn’t worth it. And shame on the doctors and the educational institutions who train them to ignore alternative medicine. Atleast in the UK, doctors are trained to be open towards alternative therapies like “Imagery” , “Acupuncture”,  and herbal therapy.

The USA tends to operate as usual. If there is no profit margin for them, then they aren’t interested in the potential benefits. They are more concerned with treating their pocket books instead of their patients. The AMA (American Medical Association) artificially controls the amount of doctors we have in circulation, their wages, and their prescribing conduct.  Hospitals won’t even disclose the prices of their services to non-insured patients! So much for a free-market system of trade! Instead, the medical industry operates on secrecy and veils to hide their misconduct.

Please support efforts to ban Essure now!

https://www.change.org/p/fda-immediately-take-essure-off-the-market

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Where is the International Day of The Boy?

Today the United Nations declared that October 11th, would now be considered “International Day of The Girl”, bringing awareness to the fact that 1 in 4 girls world-wide will become married before the age of 14.  Girls are also more likely to end up as sex trafficking slaves than boys are. Girls are also subject to genital mutilation in developing countries like Sudan, Afghanistan, and Ethiopia.

As these girls turn into women, 1 in 4 of them will end up in an abusive relationship.  Being a girl/woman, in human society is rife with challenges that should never be ignored or marginalized. However, as a gender studies enthusiast, I noticed that there is no international day of the “boy”. It shouldn’t come as a surprise. According to studies, “Fathers Day” generates 1/4 of the income from sales as compared to “Mothers Day”.  If Fathers are being ignored in their importance, then why not their sons too? Makes sense….

We must recognize that boys/men face unique challenges that girls/women do not. For example,  According to “Child-soldier.org”,  in the last 10 years, over two million child soldiers ranging from the ages of 4-15 years old, have been killed in combat. In places where child soldiers are used, more than 95% of the time, the soldiers will be boys. In fact, the military draft, including the United States, only targets men. In most countries, women are not required to sign up for conscription.

As far as genital mutilation is concerned, over 70% of newborn male babies are circumcised. A process that is not medically necessary and causes extreme pain and disfigurement to the male reproductive organs.  The foreskin that is removed contains thousands of nerve-endings, once removed, many pleasure sensing nerves and self-cleaning organisms are removed in the process. After the operation is complete, the hospitals keep the foreskins and use them for other medical procedures. Essentially, they are harvesting free organs, mainly because this sort of mutilation is socially acceptable. However, when we discuss “Female Circumcisions”, then suddenly it becomes a human rights issue.

Boys who will later turn in men are subject to many shocking statistics. Men live up to 3-5 years less than women. Men are 3 times more likely to commit suicide. Twice as likely to file for Bankruptcy due to societies demands on them to be “bread-winners”, and 1 in 7 men will end up in a relationship with an abusive woman. While many governments sponsor domestic violence shelters for women, none exist for the male counter-parts.

Men who fight for legal custody of their children will only win 7% of the time, and only after spending upwards to $30K on lawyer fees. Men are often alienated from their children in family law courts. While the courts have created agencies that enforce child-support and tend to favor custody towards women, the struggles of fathers and having enforced access to their children and/or receiving financial assistance from the government is almost unheard of; hence why there is a Child Support Enforcement Agency but there is no Child Visitation Enforcement Agency. This alienation not only causes severe depression in fathers who are alienated from their sons, but also for the children being alienated. Men are almost always the targets in cases where one parent is alienating the child from the other parent because custody is rarely granted to men to begin with. Boys who grow up with fathers are much more likely to end up as criminals,sexual deviants, and/or less successful in their jobs.

Men’s contributions are also ignored in the professional field.

Men are also more likely to take on higher-paying but also higher-risk jobs such as demolitions, military, law enforcement, construction, high-rise window cleaners, public sanitation, and oil-rig operators. Jobs that come with many health-risks. While women do exist in these fields, their numbers are very low.

Girls face unique challenges, especially in sexually charged situations. Girls also face workplace discrimination because employers fear that once they become mothers, they will not devote time to their work, thus they sometimes avoid hiring them. Is this fair? Absolutely not! In no way, shape, or form am I marginalizing the struggles that girls and women face. They are real!

But, have we gotten so focused on developing the rights of girls and women that boys and men have been chopped down in the process? This is why Nalini-Global prefers the term of “Universal Human Rights” instead of women’s rights, men’s rights, immigrants rights, ect…

The bottom line is, “HUMANS” have rights! If we are only capable of fighting for the rights of those people who look and feel as we do, then we inadvertently become discriminatory ourselves. For the misogynists who claims that “women should get back in the kitchen”, and for the misandry Feminists who calm that “Men are nothing more than sperm donors to us.” , are both proponents of extremism.

Instead of having a Women’s Rights March or a “Men’s Rights March”, why not have a “Gender Equality” march that addresses the grievances of both men and women? Because there is a bias! It is easy to fight for the rights of those who look like us. But, if we truly believe in equality, we must also ask that our sisters support their brothers, and our brothers support their sisters.

Should we celebrate mothers, girls, and women in general for the contributions that they give to our society and to our homes? Absolutely!

Should we celebrate fathers, boys, and men in general for the contributions that they give to our society and to our homes? Absolutely!

I don’t want to live in a gender neutral society. There are differences between men and women. We are not biologically equal. Both sexes contain physical and mental advantages and disadvantages. Let us start by celebrating the things that make women and men unique, and start talking about the things that negatively impact women and men.  We may be separate in our biology, but in our spirits, and our claim to human rights, we are absolutely equal!

So to our boys who will someday become men…

Thank you for being strong, masculine, and determined. We celebrate your masculinity and we fathers will also love and support you. We will help you become strong leaders, loyal husbands, hard workers, and diligent advocates for social change. Keep up the good work.

Nalini-Global

2017

-Randell D Stroud

Dedicated to Eli Ross Sayson.